Buttercup..err cake!

The little boy asked that we bake again so we scoured the grocery for our next baking project. And lo, we found a box of butter cake mix! This cake is a regular in my son's lunch box as he often winds up getting it when we drop a visit at our favorite bake shop.

As soon as we took the cake out of the oven, the little boy asked if we can bake again to which i readily answered, "Yes!" as I tried to remember where I hid the banana-honey muffin mix.

Apparently, he had other things in mind, "But next time Mama, not from the box anymore, okay?"

Ulk!

Blueberry Muffins

I have promised the little one that we'll try our hand at baking and the perfect opportunity came last Sunday when at the grocery, I found some boxes of blueberry muffin mix. :P

We hurriedly went home, set out the utensils and proceeded to follow the instructions on the box. It was so easy, we were done in less than five minutes!

I know, I cheated by using a ready mix but hey, the little boy had fun! Hehe!

Our little baker concentrating on the task at hand.

The batter set in the pretty little silicon moulds, ready for the oven.

A dozen yummy muffins.

3 little muffins waiting home for Papa who had to work last Sunday.

Update on the move

I haven't had time to blog the whole week because we've been busy unpacking and decorating our new place. I had to take Monday off from work to catch up on lost sleep. Yep, I know, bad for a pregnant mommy. But I was too excited to see things in their proper places. A kept reminding me to just take care of the kitchen while he fixed everything else. But when he's not looking, I'd sneak a touch or two here and there. Hehe! Ang tigas ng ulo! A week later though, we have settled well and are happy with what we have put together so far.

Meanwhile, the little one did a splendid job himself. He was my shopping buddy because A had to work long hours before and even during the day we moved. He didn't mind lugging all the heavy bags so that Mama can only carry the light ones. One time, he was carrying four heavy bags and was having a hard time catching up with my long strides. I then heard him shout, " Mama, my pants fell!" It was such a funny sight that it took a while for me to reach him to help. I just kept laughing and although he was aghast at his mama, he laughed at himself na rin.

As a final touch to our place, we put up our Christmas tree yesterday. Good thing Christmas decors are on sale already, we bought ours at a heavily discounted price. It's a good deal considering that it's a tall tree with nice branches on it. A set up the tree while Vince and I put on the decorations. Last night, the three of us spent a quite night in the living room admiring our tree while listening to the radio.

Next on the list is the housewarming which our friends have been bugging us with already. And then we'll be having our mini -college reunion after Christmas here. Looks like A and I will have our hands full this month.

We're moving again...

...no, not to another country, thank God! (although i wouldn't mind doing that later in life).

We are moving to another house this Sunday to have more room for our growing family.

When A and I bought our house in the Philippines, I remember making a vow that it would be my last transfer after moving from one apartment to another since college. Apparently, I had to break the vow because after a year, I had to move to free company housing as part of my relocation package. Then the following year, our Australian visa got approved and we had to move here.

At the rate rents are rising in Sydney, we aim to get our own house here soon. So, I won't be making vows anymore. Instead, I'll change my mindset into acquiring as many houses as I can. Hehe! Libre naman ang mangarap...

Old?

A few days ago, Vince and I were walking home from the mall. Earlier, he asked me what my plans were when we reach home. I told him I'll watch a movie.

As we were approaching the house, he asked again,"What are you doing at home, mama?

Mama: Sleep.

Vince: But mama, you said you are going to watch a movie!

Mama:Oh, did I say that? I forgot.

He was silent for a while then blurted out," Mama, when you were small with Tita Chiq and Tita Fran, was it a loooong, long time ago?"

I almost choked. The kid must have thought I am too old because i keep forgetting things. Hehe Can't blame him.

Yesterday, Vince and I were at the mall to while away time while Papa was in school. We were enjoying a light lunch when we heard a band and the people started to gather around the stairs. It was Santa’s band, happily playing Christmas carols and Santa obliging photo ops for the kids. I had mixed feelings, happy that I got to hear Christmas songs but sad that we are spending our first Christmas away from our loved ones.

Vince: Mama, it’s not Santa. That’s only a man, pretending to be Santa!

Mama: Oh? Really? But there is a Santa, diba?

Vince: No mama. They’re just pretending.

Eeeek! How does a mother deal with the fact that her 5 yr old already knows the truth about Santa?
A few weeks ago, I have been eyeing a nice Christmas stocking which I had planned to hang for Vince come Christmas. As a child, I have always looked forward to December 24 when we had to hang my Papa’s office socks and wake up the following day checking the various goodies that were placed inside. It was not much- mostly just junk food like Hi-C, pretzels, cheap chocolates and biscuits but I remember feeling very special receiving them. Even after I found out the truth about Santa, I still enjoyed hanging the stockings and pretended not to know anything for the benefit of my younger sisters.

I am just so disappointed that the little one found out this early. BUT I am not giving up. I’ll find a way to incorporate the ‘stocking’ into our Christmas activity this year…

Reminiscing...

Funny how some songs can transport us back to certain times in our life. In church last Sunday, the song Morning Has Broken was sung during mass. The same song was played during our JS Prom in college-don’t ask me why because I don’t understand it’s relevance to a prom until now. :P

I remember my excitement then since it was my first prom-we didn’t have that in high school. And, I had a funny feeling that I’d get to dance with my crush. :P No, I am not referring to A. Although I had a serious crush with him in college, he was crashed out from the list a few days before the prom because he started courting my friend. Haha! It was actually another guy who was dropping hints that he was interested in courting me.

That night, I was part of the prom committee and I was glad things were turning out well. I was all smiles during the actual junior-senior hand over ceremony as my crush was supposed to be my partner. But by a fateful turn of events, I was suddenly face to face with A onstage. The next thing I knew, he was handing me a red rose and the official photographer was telling us to stay closer together. Then there was the blinding flash of the camera and then I remember A holding my hand and leading me down the stage.

I did get to dance with my crush before the night ended. And A asked me to dance, too. But it was A who walked me and friends home.

Our love story didn’t kick off that night, though. It took 5 years of friendship before we realized that we actually loved each other.

Last Sunday, I asked A if he remembered our prom night and his answer was “siempre!” But he still insists I wasn’t his crush then. Grrrr! :)

I still have our JS prom photo, now safely tucked in our wedding album- a reminder that we cannot really tell what the future holds for us. As it turns out, that little photo would be the first of thousands more to be taken of us together. For A though, it was a reminder of how bad his hair was back in college. :)

Full and Sleepy

I am sooo full.

Our office network and landlines shut down at 11am so the whole Finance team decided to take advantage of the downtime to go out for lunch. It was the first time we were complete, usually it’s just us in our section. We decided to head out to our favourite resto called Ribs and Rumps because they serve the most succulent ribs in our part of town. We got salad to go with our ribs and the seafood platter which actually should have been called chips platter as obviously, there’s more chips there than seafood. Haha!

It was a good lunch, with a lot of laughter and light banter from even the toughest manager in the team. After all that food, I am sooo sleepy now. Counting the hours till knock off…

Melbourne Cup

Today, all of Australia was glued to the Melbourne Cup-the most awaited annual horseracing event in this country. An excerpt from the Australian Govt website reads:

"Melbourne Cup Day is Australia's most famous Tuesday. At 3.00 pm AEST, on the first Tuesday in November, Australians everywhere stop for one of the world's most famous horse races - the Melbourne Cup.

It's a day when the nation stops whatever it's doing to listen to the race call, or watch the race on TV. Even those who don't usually bet, try their luck with a small wager or entry into a 'sweep' - a lottery in which each ticket-holder is matched with a randomly drawn horse. "

At the office, the huge plasma tv was set up once again so that the employees won’t miss anything. An account was created online so that we can all place our bets in the sweep. Upon coaxing from my officemates who said that pregnant women are lucky, I placed $20 but won only $3.30. Haha! Well, I should say it was good enough for me. Anyway, I was more interested in the boxes of pizza that were ordered for us. Yum! Yum!

Pamper Night

We invited a few of our girl-friends last Sunday for a pamper night at home. A friend of a friend was actually selling organic beauty products and she had some sort of a demo. Although it was one of those networking stuff, we couldn’t resist the rare opportunity to relax, get-together and yes, be pampered even for just a few hours. The boys had to take care of the kids while us mommies were in the living room devouring everything that we can out of the free session. Kakainis lang that the lecturer was so slim even after having a kid of her own. I feel even more bloated looking at her. :P But heck, afterwards, we ate a lot of barbecue, pancit, chicken ala king and grilled shrimps. Hay naku, ok lang na di kami as sexy as her basta busog! hehe

Trip to Canberra

We took advantage of the October 6 Labor Day holiday to visit Canberra and see for ourselves their famed Floriade Festival.

We hopped on a Chinese tour bus, which turned out to be a bad idea because we were the only pinoys in the group and the tour guide spoke in Mandarin 90% of the time... :)

First stop was the Cockington Gardens where one is treated to an international display of miniature houses. Of course, the Philippines was well-represented...

Pinas' very own Maranao House

Nex stop was the Australian Mint where the Australian coins are made. You can actually make your own coin here with your name on it. But when we visited, the machine conked out.

The treasure-chest :)

We then moved to the main reason of our trip here...the Floriade Festival. I have never seen so many tulips in my entire life!

Tulips in all colors

Final stop was the Australian Parliament House where the senators and the house of congress hold their sessions.

The hall where Australian senators hold sessions

Another Memorable Weekend

We just had a very lovely weekend.

Saturday, we spent the entire day shopping at Paddy’s Market. This is the “Greenhills” of Sydney where you can get branded items from the factory outlets and of course, imitations of well-known brands, left and right. A and I were limping from all the goodies that we got which will go into the Balikbayan box we are sending home for the holidays. It was fun to see other Pinoys there, all of whom are preparing for their own “love box”. Although prices are higher here when you convert to pesos, it is a different high to be able to send Australian goodies back home. Sadyang ganyan ang Pinoy.

We were not halfway through our list yet but we had to go since we were already running late for our very important appointment with my cousin and her hubby who were visiting from the US . Although we haven’t seen each other for two decades, she has been a big influence specially on the career-path that I am choosing. In a way, I look up to her and I’d be happy if I can accomplish half as much as she has.

I am happy to note that despite the high-level position she is holding in one of the biggest hotel chains in the world, she has remained humble and proud of her roots. We spent hours talking non-stop while Vince hoarded all the complimentary chocolates at their hotel suite and A and my cousin-in-law discussed their common love for shooting.

She brought us to the exclusive executive lounge to get dinner but the Pinoys in us were not happy with the banquet of pizza, bread, wraps which merely looked like afternoon snacks. Hehe! We had to get our fix of rice and quick! So we went out and dined in a chinese restaurant across the hotel. We were so full but Ate L and I had to try the fried ice cream on the menu.

We had to cut our lively conversation though because it was almost midnight and the little boy was already sleepy. Besides, we were meeting our other cousins for lunch the following day.

Sunday was even better. It was our nephew’s birthday party and Ate L’s welcome party. It was the first time all of us cousins met up here in Sydney although we have been here for a few months now. Some of them I last saw in Pinas 10 years ago, some I am meeting for the first time. Everyone was just so busy and Ate L’s visit was a good excuse to finally get-together.

We were told it was just a simple barbeque party but there was enough food to feed an entire army. There was a sumptuous spread of humba, grilled pork/chicken/sausages, crabs, shrimps, squid, pancit, menudo and my favourite-kalderetang kambing! Yehey! Good food and good company all made up a lovely Sunday. And the fact that there are members of my family here officially makes Sydney my home away from home.

Sweet

Dear Vince,

One lazy Sunday afternoon, Mama took a short nap while you watched Speed Racer on the laptop for the nth time. I was on my way to dreamland when you bolted out of your seat, spread the blanket on me and announced “Mama, I’ll put the blanket on you.”

Although deeply touched by this gesture, I pretended not to notice and kept my eyes closed- afraid that you will see the tiny tears forming around the corners of my eyes. Haaay Vince, you are such a sweet little boy. Please stay sweet forever...


Mama

5

This was what greeted Vince when he woke up the day he turned 5. A slept late blowing up the balloons (which kept bursting throughout the night, we were afraid it’d wake up Vince) and coming up with the banner. I actually asked him to buy a ready-made banner but he insisted he’d cut out the letters himself! All the hardwork paid off because Vince’s face lit up when he saw this. Good thing it was a Saturday, we just took our sweet time in bed- admiring the balloons and banner while hugging each other.

Later in the afternoon, we headed to Luna Park with a friend, my cousin and her daughter. We only let the kids ride the carousel as the others are quite expensive. Haha! Then off we went to another park under the Sydney Harbour Bridge so the kids can play ball. It was very relaxing just sitting on the grass, with the wind blowing against your face and hearing the kids’ excited shrieks. All these while you have the Harbour Bridge and the Opera House as your backdrop.

That night, we invited a few of our friends and threw a small party for Vince. The little one couldn’t wipe off a big smile on his face that day which showed how much he enjoyed his simple but sweet celebration.

A and I were exhausted but it was such a small favour compared with the tremendous joy this little guy has brought into our lives. As the short note on his christening invitation said, " From the top of his head, to the tip of his toes, this little bundle has made our lives complete."

Still here...

To all my dear readers (yes, all five of you hahaha),

My apologies for not updating as much as I can. Things are fine around here but I have been too lazy to write. Kakatamad specially now that I'm pregnant and the belly is growing by the minute. Thankfully, I don't have to deal with morning sickness . The baby must have understood that Mama has to work and help around the house.

Anyway, I hope to write more in the coming days. I have to keep this short as A is already calling me to help him organize a surprise for Vince's 5th birthday.

Hope you will continue to check for updates from time to time.

Hatch and Grow

A few days back, 10 duck eggs visited Vince and his classmates. The kids had a great time hatching the eggs and taking care of the tiny ducklings. I've been told the ducks were even brought to the school park to play!

Here, Vince seriously watches over the ducks.

I'm just relieved that he did not ask we hatch our own duck at home! :)

Father's Day

Australia celebrated Father's Day last Sunday, September 9 which meant we celebrated Father's Day twice this year-the other one being the Philippine Father's Day in June.

Two weeks before the big day, Vince was busy in school preparing his surprise for Papa. After school, he would come up to me and whisper some updates, much to A's chagrin who was wondering what we were up to.

On "D Day", we woke up early to greet A then Vince took out Papa's loot from the bedside drawer- a pen holder, a key chain with Vince's photo on it, a Father's Day medal and a small canvas with Vince's photo on it. Too bad I wasn't able to take some photos as the little one insisted that A display the gifts at his office desk.

We then joined the First Sunday mass where all the fathers were made to go to the altar and received a special blessing. And as is customary after first sunday mass, we again feasted on free Filipino food.

Aside from Vince's special gifts, A also received something grand-- WE ARE HAVING ANOTHER BABY! (more details in future posts)

Happy Father's Day, A!

Why Do We Need Friends?

Tagged by Cee. Cheers!

"We need Friends for many reasons,all throughout the season.

We need Friends to comfort us when we are sad,and to have fun with us when we are glad.

We need Friends to give us good advice,We need someone we can count on,and treat us nice.

We need Friends to remember us

one we have passed sharing memories that will always last.

Spread the Poem of Friendship. 1. Everyday Life 2. Words of Love 3. Sheng's Simple Thoughts . . . 4. good thoughts, good trades 5. Ours and Our Kids 6. Jengspeaks 7. Jacque 8. Snippets of My Mind 9.Melisse's Domain 10.Seize The Day 11. Living A' La Mode 12. Balancing Act 13. You.



Sharing this Special Tag with Carol, Janah and Eda.

Kind Blogger Award

I got this award from Carol.

Cheers!

Sydney Aquarium

We visited the Sydney Aquarium last weekend. I felt like a child again specially since I saw most of the animals for the first time. I am happy for my son that he gets to experience this early on in life.

Who would want to pat the sharks anyway? Hehe!

Six Years!

A and I celebrated our 6th wedding anniversary a few days back. Hah! Has it really been 6 years? It doesn’t feel like it. Well, it shouldn’t considering that we were probably together only for less than half of it! Mwahaha

Last year, we celebrated in Davao because we were having our medical exams for the visa application at the same time. On our way to the hospital, A picked up the usual bunch of white roses for me and then we had a grand seafood dinner after the medicals. We felt we needed to celebrate more so we went to the fruit stand and had our fill of durian. Wooohooo! We knew then that the next anniversary will be different.

And how different it was! This year, the day seemed like an ordinary day. We greeted each other upon waking up then attended to Vince who was having muscle pains from all the walking we did at Darling Harbour . He was in severe pain so we had to bring him back to the doctor where he was given pain reliever. Because he had trouble walking, we placed him in a grocery cart (how convenient! hehe) then had lunch at a restaurant which serves grilled chicken. Afterwards, we went home and finished our Desperate Housewives marathon. To cap the day, A decided to open a bottle of wine to have some sort of ‘proper celebration’.

However ordinary the day passed, though, it was for me the best anniversary we have had so far. Because this time, we needn’t worry that A will be recalled at work for some red alert, or that he will be leaving in the middle of the night because he is just on an overnight pass. This time, when Vince wakes up, he will not ask where his dad is. This time, we are sure that we will sleep soundly through the night, wake up the following day and start with our weekly routine all over again.

Happy anniversary to us, A! I know we deserve a pat on each other’s back for what we have accomplished the past 6 years. It’s been more than a roller-coaster ride with all the trials that we’ve been through. We have managed alright, albeit with a few bruises which are sure to heal given time. If there's one big blessing that I am most thankful for in our marriage, it would be our strong commitment to the vows we have made before God. 'Ika nga nila, through thick and thin..errr, thick pala kasi tumataba na tayo eh! hehe

Here’s to a new and exciting chapter in our marriage. I know we will again survive this one. Ibang klase tayo eh!

Blog Award For An Awesome Site

Thanks, Cee!

I am humbled and inspired by this award.

Same award goes out to you, too and to Carol and Marnellie.

On a Windy Saturday

We were supposed to have a doctor's check up last Saturday but when we reached the hospital, we were told we needed to get an appointment first. Aarrrgh! To think we braved the cold weather just to have that check up!

It was still too early to go home and we already did the laundry and ironed the clothes. So, we decided to go to the city, this time, just the three of us, and without a particular destination in mind.

After a short discussion, we finally decided to hit Darling Harbour, eager to find out what still remained unexplored during our last visit.

We walked through the Darling Harbour Walkway, down to a narrow alley and then to a park hidden in the middle of tall buildings. Vince had a blast at the slides while A and I took in the sights. Tired, we then proceeded to the line of restaurants to have our lunch. We just had burgers and chips because we were still full from our late breakfast. Then, off we went again to check the rest of the harbour.

A's officemate mentioned that there was currently a US Navy Ship on display so A and Vince were eager to check it out. We couldn't find the ship, though, but we were delighted to know that entrance to the Australian Maritime Musuem was free. What a bonus! We stayed inside for a couple of hours, also visiting the USA Gallery in the adjacent room.

It was past 4pm when we headed home, exhausted but pleased with the day's adventure.

Mini-reunion and a free friday

Last Monday, J, who was my high school classmate and good friend had a stop over at Sydney before proceeding to the Gold Coast for a month-long vacation. We have both settled in the same place in Mindanao the past few years but we don't really get to see each other often enough. We only get to go out when some high school classmates were in town because of the tight schedules we both keep. So despite the difficulties of our meeting up in Sydney, we had to make it happen. And boy was I glad! I miss Pinas so much and seeing someone from home somehow made me feel that a part of me was home, too. Hehe

Friday, I had to take the day off from work to bring V to the doctor because he was running a fever. Good thing the doctor's wife was also Filipina and he really took good care of us. After the check up, V and I dropped by at the mall to have lunch and then we both headed home to take an afternoon nap. Recharged, I then loaded the laundry into the washer and ironed a few clothes.

So that practically sums up the entire week. Weekend's gonna be better, though.

Greetings Around The World

Cheers, Cee.

*Start Copy Here*

Memes are a great way to link everyone together. In Cyberspace, many people use English as the Universal Language and say Hi, Hello and more.

Have you tried learning other languages of the same meaning?Let's get to know each other by placing a welcome/hello greeting in your language and spread it over all Bloggers in Cyberspace.

Rules:
1. Copy the text from "Start Copy Here."
2. Post it on your Blog. Make sure you copy it in Compose Mode (Blogger) or Visual Mode for others. This will enable you to copy all your friends' links as well. Have fun doing it.
3. In the next number, add your Blog URL and link it.
4. Add the greetings that you use frequently or one that is in your traditional language.Konichiwa Meme by AikoAiko

1. All About Kawaii says Konichiwa
2. MommyAllehs Up-Close And Personal says Mabuhay! Hello! Hi!
3. Insights from the Grocery Cart says Mabuhay! Haler! Kamusta? >PHILIPPINES<
4. Ed's Mommy Life says Mabuhay! Kumusta! Hi! Hellow po! Haler! >PHILIPPINES<
5. Sheng's Simple Thoughts says Sveiki(Hello!) Labdien(Good day!) >LATVIA<
6. Richelle's My Life's Journey in Italy says Ciao!(Hello!) Buona Giornata! (Have a Good day!)
7. Living A' La Mode says "Hi!," "Hello!," "Howdy?!,"Hows It Going?'" "What's Up?!" >USA<
8. Balancing Act says "Hello, mate!" , ""How are you?" > AUSTRALIA<

*End Copy Here*

We would like to know how they say it in Davao, Marnellie.

Praying for Peace

Sometimes, we really do not mean the things we say, except when circumstances hit too close to home---literally.

My sister emailed me at work this afternoon, saying that a group of MILF (Moro Islamic Liberation Front) men torched the nearby town-just 20 minutes away from where my parents established our home. I immediately called to check on my folks but they sounded okay. They have made their exit plans and apparently, only my mother was supposed to leave town, while Papa will stay behind to defend what they have worked hard for all these years. I was aghast at first, thinking what could be more important than life? But I remember the same thing happening a few years back, Papa was adamant that he will fight for what they have until his last drop of blood. And I agree with him, we should not make it easy for these fools and scurry away at the slightest attack of terrorism. So i called hubby to refresh my Papa with some basics, hubby having the proper training in this situation.

Later in the day, I was told that the MILF has withdrawn from the town but only after burning some houses and killing a few hostages. Sad.

This had been a traumatic experience for my townmates, family and relatives. I know they cannot sleep well tonight thinking that this could happen again.

As for me, I have never really prayed as seriously for world peace as I did today.

Happy Birthday to the Man of the House

This week, A turned another year older. Since his big day fell on a weekday, we just bought roast chicken and ice cream for dinner. Afterwhich, we headed to our room to....fold the loads of laundry he did the prior weekend. Hehe! Ang sweet no? This was probably the simplest birthday he has had. This is also the most significant, with him starting something new this year.

But yesterday, we decided to invite some friends over and have a proper celebration. A, who has, since our arrival in Australia, re-discovered his love for cooking (he really doesn't have much of a choice, wala ng helpers dito hehe), cooked a mean feast of kare-kare, pinakbet, pancit and breaded pork ribs. I, of course, had to dish out my 'famous' lumpia shanghai. hehe We had a great time bonding with our good friends here. And what a treat it was that, S, who was our college classmate was able to join us. It was a reunion of sorts. We haven' t seen her since our college graduation. And she was a bit amused that A and I ended up together :-)

The Seven Tag

This Lucky 7 Tag was shared by Cee.

The Rules:
a. List these rules on your Blog.
b. Share 7 facts about yourself on your Blog.
c. Tag 7 people at the end of your post by leaving their names as well as links to their Blogs.

You’ll have to read my 7 facts and see who i tagged.

Seven Facts about Myself:

1. I have been away from my parents since I was 12 yrs old to study high school one hour by ferry from home. Had to move to a different place for college and then a different one again for work. And now, I have moved even farther away. Waaah, i miss home.

2. I love to read and i dream of having a huge library complete with all the books in my wish-list.

3. I am an accountant but I hate numbers! hehe I love performing pero wala naman akong talent. Huhuhu

4. I love guyabano, fresh tomatoes, lechon, dried fish and durian. Hmn..naglalaway na ako!

5. I soooo miss having househelp. Although I am really grateful that I have a husband who can be depended on for housechores.

6. I used to be worry-wart (taking after my mama hehe) but by a sudden twist of fate (insert sound effects here), i have discovered that it's a lot easier to be an optimist :-) I haven't looked back since.

7. There's less than 7 people on my blog roll and I think all of them have answered this tag. So I am not tagging anyone. hehe

Long overdue

Dear Vince,

This letter is long overdue. It's been sometime since my last one but I know you understand. You've seen how mad our daily activities had been from the time we prepared for our move here to this day as we try to settle in this new place.

If there's one who has been most affected by all this, that should be you. I know it was tough being uprooted from our pretty little community in the boondocks, leaving a school you have begun to love and family who adore you so much. But like a real trooper, you have kept pace with Papa and me. The whole month of May that we were always moving about, packing and unpacking, visiting family and friends, spending late nights, waking up early to prepare for yet another activity may have taken it's toll on your very young body but you kept everything in good stride. I even think you were at your happiest. And I know exactly why. You were loving every moment that both Papa and Mama were around.

You will probably not remember any of this but you have grown more mature than other boys your age. From the time we left our home in Pinas, you must have understood that there's just the three of us now and I think you have made a decision to make it easier for Papa and me. You were a picture of maturity at the airport, carrying your backpack and pulling around your trolly, always giving me a smile and the thumbs up when I check how you were doing. People couldn't help but smile when looking at you.

I am happy to say that you have adjusted well to life in Australia. You are now starting pre-school and you seem to enjoy it. You are also slowly picking up the accent! haha But of course, you still speak your native tongue very well.

Because there's no more Yaya Maymay to follow you around, you have learned to fend for yourself, from taking a bath, to going to the toilet, eating on your own, choosing and putting on your clothes. Sometimes, though, Mama misses it that you need her to help you out. You have learned to be independent but mama is the one suffering from separation anxiety. Haha!

It is our prayer that you will remain to be level-headed, obedient, kind, polite and loving even when you grow old. We are proud of you, son and we love you very much.

First Sundays

Every first Sunday of the month, Filipinos sponsor the 12noon mass here in the Catholic church which is just a five minute walk from our house. The church is usually full during this time ,with Pinoys flocking this part of the globe.

I remember so well the day we arrived Sydney. We just dropped off our things and hurried to catch the first sunday mass. I had goosebumps all over as I sang to the Tagalog religious songs being played. And when "Bayan Ko" was sang at the recessional, the tears were falling down already. I had to stiffle a giggle as hubby loudly sang with much gusto, even putting a hand on his chest, throwing me a knowing glance. Haha!

After mass, free lunch is served at the convent's social hall - a rather welcome treat for those who badly miss Pinoy food. This is also a good time to meet fellow Pinoys who are living around the area and of course, a good venue to remind kids of their roots. I've been told that on special ocassions, lechon (roast pig) is also served. Wow! I am now counting the days to the next big event. I terribly miss lechon already!

Olympic Fever

I've never been a sports buff my entire life. The closest I got near being athletic was crazily cheering for my favorite team at the PBA games during my college days. And yeah, that short stint at my previous employer when we were forced to play volleyball. Other than that, I stayed as far away from sports like a plague. Hehe!

So I was amazed when at the middle of this week, our HR group emailed everyone to prepare for an "Olympic Celebration" today. Huh! What was the fuss all about? I mean, Beijing is so far away, surely the Australian team won't see us cheering them on during opening day. Haha!

But early this morning, I learned that they were serious about the 'celebration'. Olympic rings were posted in all available walls in the office, with score cards of all possible games and the expected wins Australia will take home. And tv sets were being put up so that we can actually watch what is happening in Beijing. Kakatuwa! It was amusing to see everyone so excited. I was rather more interested in the food that was served. Haha!

Well let's see what happens in the coming days. For me at least, this is a good conversation starter at lunch. Hehe!

Just so...

...there is an excuse to party, Friday afternoons were tagged as "drinks and chips" day at my very first company in Australia. Loads of drinks and chips were served inside the office and everyone is encouraged to join the chit-chat.

I remember getting tipsy on my first day at work, that being a Friday. Being the newbie, I was too shy to refuse the vodka offered by my boss. Siempre, takot ko lang baka i-fire ako agad. I cluelessly pretended to be "cool" and drank the entire bottle. I had to go to the powder room to vomit afterwards. Hehe!

I learned my lesson after that. I joined the group when everyone has already picked up the alcoholic drinks so that I was left with no other choice but the colas. Wais na misis!

Proud to be Pinoy

This week, i caught a full bus on my way home from work. Thankful for my size, I was able to squeeze a seat between two huge guys. The aisles were full with people standing just to get home fast on a rush hour.

The guy near me went down two stations after so I assumed the woman standing in front of me will take his seat. But before she did, she actually asked the guy beside her if he wants to sit down. Uh-huh! This is Australia and equality is heavily practiced here. If this scene was in Pinas, the girl would have automatically sat down. Kasi, that's what we are taught at home and in school, right?

The guy apparently declined the offer because the girl sat beside me. Alas! When I looked up, the guy was actually Filipino! Kaya naman pala eh...I couldn't contain my smile. I was so proud of my kababayan. :)

One fine sunday...

I was supposed to watch the latest Batman flick with my boys last Sunday but I wasn't too keen on going out. I can see the trees outside the house bending over from the strong winds.

I opted to stay home instead, grateful for some quiet time and uninterrupted time on the internet. Well, it was not uninterrupted, afterall, because I saw the pile of laundry waiting to be ironed. I fought hard not to get the ironing board but then, i felt guilty that hubby finished ironing all our pants and the heavy items Saturday night. So, what must a girl do? Iron clothes while surfing the web and chatting with my mother in Pinas. Hmn..multi-tasking at it's best!

When the boys arrived three hours later, i was already fast asleep. But hubby was pleased that the clothes have been neatly placed in their respective cabinets, ready for the week.

And I did not regret not going with them at all. Apparently, there was a hail storm outside. The little one was amused to see ice balls falling around him, though. He was boasting that he saw snow! hehe

Awards

Thanks, Cee for giving me these awards. It was so sweet of you. :)

Tagged again

I've been tagged by Marnellie.

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For today, July 29 (Tues)

Outside My Window… it's very dark, it's 10pm already haha

I am thinking… of putting on my socks, turning the heater to maximum, curling up between hubby and son under the warm quilt and aim to wake up late because tomorrow is Saturday. Yahoo!

I am thankful for… countless opportunities, time with my boys, parents, sisters, friends and relatives, good health and the chance to start a new life in a new place

From the kitchen…there's nothing going on there right now, sleeping time na po.

I am wearing… two layers of clothes..anlamig pa rin!

I am creating…an entry to my blog.

I am going…to answer my emails tonight.

I am reading…other people's blogs

I am hoping…that winter will be over soon.

I am hearing…music from hubby's ipod

Around the house… it's very quiet, everyone must have fallen asleep already

One of my favorite things… good food and good company

A Few Plans For The Rest Of The Week: go to the park with the boys this weekend because we promised Vince we'd try his new bike two weeks ago. Never had the chance, ang lamig kasi. And then clean up, iron clothes, sleep, sleep, hehe

Here is the picture/thought I am sharing…a photo of us cousins some years back when we had a vacation in the beautiful island of Siquijor in the Philippines. (that's me wearing green)



Thanks, Marns.

World Youth Day 2008

We visited the city on July 20 to join the hundreds of thousands of Catholics who were celebrating mass with the Pope. Knowing that it will be difficult for us to get near, with people camping the previous night to get the best spot, we opted to go to St Mary's Cathedral instead. It was on the news that a huge screen will be placed broadcasting the Pope's mass. But when we got there, there was no screen and it was so quiet.

So we just stayed at Hyde Park, took pictures again and went to the nearest burger stand to get lunch.

It was an unusually quiet day for a city which is always bustling with people. But it's heartwarming that most residents joined with the Catholics in celebrating the World Youth Day mass with the Pope.

Muddy Feet

This photo was taken last December when we visited my Uncle's farm. It was raining so hard but we had to move around the farm a lot to get some things done. We were unmindful of the heavy rain, strong wind and thick mud. All we cared about was to have fun, stuff ourselves with good food, sing and dance using a huge videoke machine. I love this pic because it reminds me of good times spent with loved ones.

Can you guess which one is mine? Hehe

The week that was...

It's been a hectic week with A starting an 8-5 job. We only got to squeeze in Vince for a day at childcare which is Friday. The rest of the week, our friend who does the night shift takes care of him. We learned that the waiting list for child care here could take up to a year. What the....? Eh, by early next year, Vince will be in kindergarten already. Hahay, buhay!


Since we don't have househelp here (waaah, ibalik nyo 'ko sa Pinas!), A and I wake up early, prepare breakfast and packed lunch, assist Vince in taking a bath then leave him with our friend. Then A makes a dash for the train and I, for the bus.


After work, he cooks dinner, I wash up our lunch boxes, A does the laundry while I fold those from the previous day's. We only get to relax after dinner when we get to surf the net, chat with family in pinas, watch dvd's or listen to Australian radio. There is one program we love tuning in to, pretty much like what we have back in Pinas. Kana bang mag-dedicate ug song sa loved ones. Hehe! Would you believe they have it here, too? Corny man pod diay ni sila! Haha A and I get a good laugh everytime we listen to the program.

Weekdays are tough since we still have to take care of housechores after work. But i wouldn't have it any other way. Masaya pa rin kahit pagod. :)

Tagged

I've been tagged by Cee.

Rule: Place an X on all the things you've done,or remove the X from the ones you have not.This is for your entire life!
Gone on a Blind Date --
Skipped school -- X (in college, a number of times hehe)
Seen someone die --X (twice, my grandma and cousin)
Been to Florida --
Been to Mexico --
Been on a plane -- X
Been lost -- X
Been on the opposite side of the country -- X (yeah in the Phils)
Gone to Chicago --
Swam in the ocean --
Felt like dying -- X (almost drowned on a beach when i was small)
Cried yourself to sleep -- X
Played cops and robbers when i was little --
Recently colored with crayons -- X (with my son)
Sang karaoke -- X (always! back in pinas and moreso now in Aus hehe)
Paid for a meal with only coins --X (not in the Phils, all the time here in Aus)
Did something you told yourself you would not -- X
Made prank phone calls -- X (in high school hehe)
Laughed until some kind of beverage came out of your nose --X (very recently with hubby)
Caught a snowflake on your tongue --
Danced in the rain --
Written a letter to Santa Claus --
Been kissed under the mistletoe --
Watched the sun rise with someone you care about --X (with hubby countless times)
Blown bubbles -- X
Made a bonfire on the beach -- X
Crashed a party --
Gone roller-skating --
Gone Ice-skating --
Gone skinny dipping --

1. Nickname? Totskie
2. Mother's Nickname? inday
3. What is your favorite drink? iced tea
4. Tattoos? none
5. Piercing? Ears
6. How much do you love your job? not much
7. Birthplace? Phils
8. Favorite vacation spot? my parents' home
9. Ever been to Africa? Not yet
10. Ever eaten cookies for dinner? nope
11. Ever been on TV? nope
12. Ever steal any traffic signs? No
13. Ever been in a car accident? yes, twice
14. Was it your fault? nope, i was only a passenger
15. Doors or 4 Doors?
16. Salad dressing? any
17. Favorite pie? Buko Pinya pie
18. Favorite number? 7
19. Favorite movies? feel good ones
20. Favorite holiday? Christmas
21. Favorite dessert? blueberry cheesecake
22. Favorite food? lechon hahaha
23. Favorite day of the week? weekends
24. Favorite brand of Body Soap? i use what's on sale hahaha
25. Favorite TV Show? i don't get to watch tv anymore
26. Favorite smell? my baby's
27. What do you do to relax? read, eat, sleep
28. Do you have a message to your friends reading this? Hi Friends! Miss y'all!
29. How do you see yourself in 10 years? a mommy for the 2nd time, travelled to places on my wishlist...
30. What do you do when you are bored? surf the net
31/ Farthest place you will send this message? not really sure
32. Who will respond the fastest? I can not tell
33. Who will LEAST likely respond? I can not tell

All my Blogger Friends who would like to grab this, please feel free to do so :-)

Thanks, Cee.

Birds in the City

Although Sydney is a big city, it is not unusual to see birds right smack in the middle of the central business district. Birds freely roam around here. They're so tame, they'd even gladly eat from your palm.

One afternoon, hubby saw a parrot sit on our veranda. He slowly went near the bird, tentatively touching to see if it won't fly. And it didn't!

Last week, when we were at Burkinhead Point, i saw this bird inside the foodcourt, calmly nibbling on morsels on the floor.



It is amazing to see people and birds live together.

Wooohooo!

We went to the market this afternoon and I was very happy to see Durian!!! Although it's quite expensive at $3.50 per kilo (wag na kasi mag-convert!), we still bought one and hurriedly went home to eat.

It didn't have the normal smell of Philippine durian. It did not even smell until you open the fruit. And it actually tasted better, sweeter and there was none of the bitter after taste we had back home.

I am just so happy to have found out that they sell durian here. Babaw no? :)

Tiangge

Thursday is 'tiangge' day in our suburb. At a clearing among the rows of stores beside a big mall, booths are set up that sell various international goodies. Last Thursday, we sampled spanish cuisine. Today, we did Malaysian. Then we walked to the nearby pinoy store to buy chicharon and pandesal. Next Thursday, I might try Japanese food.

The best thing about it is there is a free show everytime. Last Thursday was a string quartet. Today, it was a band. Other times, students from nearby schools perform mini shows.

Yeah, one of life's cheap thrills.

random

I have been busy again because I am starting work at another company. Just to update you with what I've been doing the past days...

• Thank God for technology, i was able to see my relatives through webcam last Saturday. They were attending my Lola's burial and they all trooped to the house so that we can see each other.

• We went to Burkinhead Point last Saturday to do a little shopping at the factory outlets of well-known products. We were able to get branded shoes and clothes at very low prices. While there, we had lunch at the wharf with a charming view of the yachts in front of us. Haay, wish ko lang, someday we'd be able to own one. Hehe

• On my first day at work, I was asked to join a meeting for a new project the company is looking at. I was hired to fix some mess in that company, which I should say is very challenging. This is just a temporary job though, but the boss told me this afternoon that she will get a justification to make me permanent. Hmn..let's wait and see.

I am pleased to see that the pantry is always stocked with fresh fruits (grapes, oranges, apples,pears,bananas YEY) milk, coffee and even beer huh! I had to remind myself to slow down on the grapes, though.

• It's getting colder everyday. We should probably get another heater soon. It is an effort to walk to the bus station. But my son, as usual is still clad in his sandos.

More updates soon...

Patriotic?

A few days ago, much to our astonishment, my son (4 yo), his cousin Gabbie (3 yo) and their friend Ysabelle (4 yo) were chanting "Pilipino ako! Pilipino ako!" They were marching to the sala, raising their fists and wearing defiant smiles.Hehe Cute!

I don't know where they got that but I am so proud of these tots for knowing early on that indeed they will remain to be Filipinos even after they get their Australian citizenships in a few year's time.

Dee Why Beach

the long stretch of white sand

We visited Dee Why Beach last June 7 which was about an hour from where we are currently staying. Quite a long trip, actually, but it was well worth it.



Here's an excerpt from Wikipedia about this beach:


"Dee Why Beach runs for about 1.2 km along the eastern border, overlooking the Tasman Sea. To the north are the dunes separating the beach from the Dee Why Lagoon. On its southern end, the foreshore is given over to Dee Why Surf Life Saving Club, and Dee Why Beach Reserve, which contains picnic areas and century old Norfolk Island Pines, similar to the ones in Manly. The reserve is contained by a seawall running for approximately 400m, and has recently been upgraded, with new pathways, stairs, lookout platforms, an upper promenade and the restoration of the war memorial.[7] There are two playgrounds in the vicinity, located southern end of the beach and west of the Life Saving Club, and several ocean pools located below cliffs to the south."



It is a great place for families as there are activities for all age groups. The folks can go swimming in the beach or the pools, the teen-agers can go surfing or fishing while the kids can frolic in the huge playground overlooking the shoreline. It is also a good place to just commune with nature.


We did not get to swim because it was still very cold even with the sun shining. Eh, winter pa kasi. We made a promise to go back come summer.



view from the playground

Sariwa

My apologies for the lame title. Hehe

One good thing about Australia is the abundance of fresh food everywhere. In the groceries, maglalaway ka sa rows and rows of fresh fruits, veggies and meat. I am now able to meet face to face all the food that I only get to read about in books and magazines. I relish going through the shelves one by one to memorize the names and sometimes, if the budget permits, we sample the new things we find.

One of my favorite fruits is grapes and boy, how I love the seedless grapes here. I can even finish a kilo all by myself! Nahubog na gani ko ug kinaon Hehe! Although we are miles away from the Phils, we still get to eat Pinoy food--kare2, pinakbet, chicken/pork adobo, tilapia..name it, Australia has it! Some items come in weird sizes though. Like the small and irregular shaped squash, the giant eggplants and pepper to name a few.

Sometimes, when we get a little sentimental, we go to the nearby Filipino store to get a quick fix from our favorite chicharon, sardines, pandesal or the instant noodle brands that we have grown accustomed to.

The other night, we passed by the fresh food market and bought a cartful of fruits and veggies. I was amused to see the loaded cart make it's way to our unit's doorstep. Yeah, you can actually bring the pushcarts to your home! Hubby made fresh fruit salad, pinoy style. He just had to put strawberries on top for aesthetics.

Yummy, eh?

parteeee!

Eversince we got here, our weekends have been full of parties hosted by fellow Filipinos who have made Australia their home. We were always invited to birthdays, housewarmings or just plain simple get togethers to celebrate our arrival.

Yesterday was no different. It was Mike's bday, our new friend here, husband of my ex officemate from Pinas.

We met some new friends yesterday and it's impressive that we got along well right away. There was so much laughter the entire time. And of course, too much dancing, singing and kodakan. Ang pinoy nga naman, kahit saan basta may magic sing, solve na!

I am thankful that A and I found good friends here immediately. It sure makes living so far away from our loved ones a lot easier.

Farewell, Lola Maning!

Lola (colored pic) sorrounded by pics of her children during graduation

A few minutes ago, I received an offline message from my sister that our grandmother, Lola Maning passed away early this morning.

She's been sick for a few months now and a few days before we left, we had time to see her in her home. We dropped by after the visit to Uncle Sario's farm.

She was lying on her bed when we arrived, talking to someone who came to visit. But when she saw A and me, she jokingly asked my cousin Riza to take out the face powder and her wheelchair as she preferred to entertain us in her terrace. I secretly tease A that he is the favorite grandson-in-law for her to be going out despite her condition. Physically, she was very different from the Lola Maning we grew up with. She was weak, very thin and needed to be in a wheelchair. But the same old hearty laughter, wit and spunk were still there.

The other grandchildren arrived a few minutes later and Lola, always loving the attention showered on her, regaled us once again with her many stories of a time, long ago, when the world was for her taking.

She asked Riza to take out her old photos, and wistfully reminisced the story behind every picture.

Lola with children Uncle Bing and Auntie Dickie

When Lola saw Marco, the son of our cousin Mark, who is her great grandchild, her eyes lit up and asked to bite the little one's legs. It was a heartwarming scene which had me controlling my tears from falling.

Then, Lola asked her only son, Uncle Bing to give her cigarettes which was bawal but Uncle Bing couldn't say no. She is one tough woman and those who know our family, know that very well. She is bizarre, unique, queer, intimidating, weird (an understatement hehe) but always an unending source of funny anecdotes for us family members. My cousins and I can spend a whole night just talking about her, what a source of entertainment. Kakaiba talaga! hehe


When it was time to go, Lola, in a childlike manner, asked to kiss all of us, in the forehead. By this time, a tear already escaped me. I knew then that it was the last time I will see her.

Photo of Lola during our last visit

Farewell, Lola Maning! You will always be remembered...

On to the next adventure

I took this pic of The Sydney Harbour Bridge

As some of you might already know, my family is moving on to our next adventure. On June 1, 2008, we arrived in Sydney after months and months of stressful preparation. That would probably sit at the topmost list of the most difficult times in my life.

But all's well that ends well. We are now slowly settling down and enjoying our first month in this wonderful place that we will call home for now. It is overwhelming to be taking in so many changes all at once but these are all positive developments and very welcome at that.

Amidst all these, I can only say - DREAMS DO COME TRUE!

Mine did!

cherished memories

Before we flew to Sydney, we spent a few days with our family and friends in the province.




May 24 was my papa's birthday. Our close relatives gathered mainly to celebrate his special day and partly to send us off. Mama, Fran and I cooked our specialties while A and papa went to see a mechanic to fix a glitch in our car. Vince, meanwhile, had the time of his life playing with his cousins. We had a very special dinner and then kwentuhan na until 2am!

Papa's bday cake

Nabitin yata sa kwentuhan so it was then agreed that we will visit my uncle's farm the following day to grill native chicken. And so, at 9am, my cousin Em roused everyone up so that we can all proceed with the day's activity.

When we reached the farm at 12nn, fresh buko was already harvested and made ready for us. And of course, the grilled chicken that we have pined for since our last visit there in December.

What bliss to be eating such sumptous food in the company of the people you love!

Long time no post :)

Time flew past so quickly.

I could not even squeeze in a single second to jot down my thoughts. There were so many things i wanted to blog about but i had to rush through my days at this point. Moreso when i go back to the workforce tomorrow. Hah! Wish me luck! Hope i can pull this thing off coz they say it will be good on my CV.

Sayang, andami pa naman nangyari before we moved here. But i will sit down one of these days to tell you more of our great, big adventure. Ang saya! :)

early morning post

It is still 7am but i am already facing the laptop to check my mails.

Meanwhile, the boys are with me in the sala following a taebo cd on tv. It is such a joy watching father and son seriously doing their exercises. I intermittently interrupt them with my kantyaws hehe

They are heading out in a few minutes to jog.

I, on the other hand, am content exercising just my fingers. Haha!

Sige na nga, konsensya si manang. i'll be joining them na in a while. They jog, i walk! mwahahahaha

Happy Mother's Day

Greetings to all the moms!

And to my mama inday and mother in law mama cande, i love you both. You inspire me to become a better mom myself. Hats off to both of you!

Having Fun

We are still on vacation mode right now. It is bliss waking up between my boys and spending extra time in bed before dragging ourselves to breakfast. We are practically together 24/7. Last Friday, though, I joined my ex-officemates for an out of town trip which was intended to send off all three of us who left the company last May 1.

We booked an entire resort with an indoor swimming pool for our exclusive use. And we brought lots of food! yey! The british owner was very accommodating. He enjoyed our happy group so he let us use most facilities for free. Hehe! But the downside was i had a headache from lack of sleep. We stayed up until past 2am for the open forum, waking up at 6am for taebo exercises just so we can have a good laugh. :) It was a memorable activity. It's with a heavy heart that i am leaving all of them but it is really time to move on.

Meanwhile, A and Vince went to watch Speed Racer while Mama was out. It was Vince's first time to be in a movie house and i am glad he experienced it with his papa. A texted me that Vince enjoyed it so much, they had to repeat the movie until 11pm. Haha!

Still alive!

I'm still here!

i'm jobless but happy...

my days are jampacked.

everyday is a never ending series of packing and unpacking.

but i got to spend a few days of RnR in Davao.

went to 3 charming beaches..

spent 2 days at Pearl Farm and got real pearls as souvenir. woohooo!

i hope to write more about my trip when i have the time.

for now, i'm so tied up, i barely have time to sit down and think :)

haaay, this is the life!

The Don Moen Concert

Last Saturday-April 12, my cousins (Riza, Layling, Aiza and Mark), my sister (Chiqui) and I flocked to the Don Moen concert in the city. Sadly, A was at work so he couldn’t join us.

To say that it was a moving experience would be an understatement. It was in fact, akin to having a close encounter with God because as we sang to familiar and inspiring songs, we were sitting on the bleachers in an open field. Looking up, you see the blackness of the sky dotted only by a few city lights and the wind blowing so softly on your face, it felt like God was smiling down on you, hearing your every word, listening to your heart, wiping every tear, taking away all your sorrows.

I was uncontrollably crying the entire time, even during the ‘fast’ songs. Maybe because the first song was “Give Thanks” and at this point in my life, i am truly overflowing with gratefulness for all the wonderful, magnificent blessings we are getting.

Thank you, Lord, for people like Don Moen whom you use to remind your flock that you are near…to be still and know that You are God. And that no matter how hard things get… life has a bizarre way of turning trials into triumphs.

Letrato

Just wanted to share some photos taken last week.

I came home early one afternoon and caught my little boy helping his yaya sweep the newly-mowed front lawn. He enjoyed it so much you'd think it's the best job in the world. Hehe!

The photo is blurry because he wouldn't stop despite my efforts at making him pose for me. Mwahaha

These are flowers I bought from a nearby flower farm at P50 a bunch. Ahh, the best things in life are (almost) free!